We all need a little help in life… Me, I seriously need and editor because my grammar sucks…lol So please forgive me if some of my posts still need a solid edit! (This is not a joke so if you’d like to help, please click the link at the bottom of this page for more info.).
But hey! If you just want to know more about my crazy life or what makes me, well me… That’s a little complicated. Let’s just say I can write a few novels about the Book of Adam…lol But, for those who want a little more insight into who I am and what drive my engine; I’ve written a short bio and provide an introduction to a book I am writing about my life story to help explain what compels me to write about the topics of discussion I cover in this blog.
I will warn you in advance though, my life is filled with many experiences that are far from the realm of Rated PG and you are getting the raw, unadulterated version of it!
The main reason’s why I choose to share my story are many. One of them is to help people understand that no life story should be withheld and that all need to be told at one point or another in order for all of us to truly find our purpose or make peace with our past. This is especially true for those whose tales tend to be on darker side of life. We all need to focus on developing the strength to face reality and stop excepting the world to be more sensitive.
This politically correct crap is making us a much weaker species than we were meant to be while denying us the power of having a more balanced perspective. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to see that life rarely takes it easy on a vast majority of the human population… Trust me when I tell you, I’m speaking from a world of experience! Especially when it comes to facing adversity and dealing fear or pain, many of us can attest to the fact that most of us seem to find ourselves drowning in a sea of the never ending crappy experiences. The odd part is, if this is you, once you realize this is more a gift than a curse. Life becomes a pretty interesting ride filled with opportunities you never though possible no matter how bad your life is…
So if you’re brave (or stupid) enough to see what I’m talking about, you can check out my life story by clicking here. Just remember… you have been warned!!!
This Blog Is All About Perspective
The more perspectives one can see from, the more powerful you become! Balance has been and always will be the key to understanding the infinite number of ideas and issues that come across our path in life on a daily basis. The more perspective we have, the less power our emotions have over us, the more we can learn about ourselves and our purpose in this world. Let’s face it, if you simply learn to treat other opinion as just another persons perspective (their personal truth) it really makes it easier to not take such thing so personally. No matter how much it initially pisses you off. After all, most things that challenge our belief usually do whether they are based in fact or fantasy. Having an open mind and balanced perspectives simply make it easier to overcome the obstacles in our path that make it harder to enjoy life.
This blog site is just my personal perspective, theories and philosophies about life, religion, politics and parenting. Of which, is always subject to change with the introduction of new information. So please don’t take anything I say personally. If something I says resonates or offends you, you must learn to take the hint and look at your own life to see why my words have so much power over you and/or cause you so much emotional turmoil. After all, words really only have this kind of impact if they touch upon something deep withing yourself that need to explore further in order to help you understand why they have so much power over you. The fact remains that the only thing that truly separates us from animals is our power to intellectually analyze, explore and control the powers of these emotions with a little practice. Well, that and our opposable thumbs, complete inability to naturally coexist with each other or our planet, etc…lol
What We Are Trying To Do
Here we try to create a forum to discuss some of the worlds most controversial topics of conversation in a civilized manner. All while adding a dash of humor to help soften the blow of getting slapped in the face with reality. The fact of the matter is, we are all a little delusional from time to time and rarely will you find someone who lives in what I like to call, “True Reality“. No matter how you slice it, we all seem to lie to ourselves about certain things. Me, I’m not different or better, I’m just aware.
Whether we create an entire fantasy world to help us protect ourselves from out own truth by providing the perfect cover which allows us to avoid facing reality about who we really are or the world we came from. To those people who just lie to themselves or others a little bit because they feel their lives are too boring or simply don’t want to believe certain things happen or are happening. The range of lies we weave are as infinite as the number of people who feverishly hold them as we all seem to lash out and attack those personal perspective we feel define us, especially when someone actively or unintentionally tries to to destroy such personal self-deceptions.
Since the dawn of Social Networks no one can escape this reality any longer as all it takes is a few keyboard strokes to see how true this theory really is. With mediums like Facebook, Snap chat, etc. filled with millions of people that quickly go from being a self-proclaimed authority or apparently peaceful pacifist to full blown psycho when someone challenges their protective shell of ignorance. If you want proof just go to a nearest Facebook page that talks about politics, religion, gun control or vaccines, etc and check out the comment sections. It won’t take long to see first hand how brutal and close minded most people really are! It’s really quit sad.
Regardless of whether we intentionally created these delusions or subconsciously construct this disconnect from reality to protect ourselves or those we care about, we all tend to do it more often than most of us admit and few people even realize they do it. Our mission here is to help people find the strength to find their own “True Reality“. Especially those people who refuse to accept reality or have gotten so good at hiding their own dirty little secrets their refusal to acknowledge those parts of own life/past make being sustainably happy near impossible. Let’s face it folks! Pretending that, “It’s all good” simply doesn’t work anymore! The human minds is a complex thing and the bottom line is no one can really blame anyone’s mind for creating such delusions or deceptions.
After all, who the hell wants to face reality when it most of our worlds are dominated and filled with varying levels of suckiness anyways…
We All Need To Face Reality
In a world when even a the most well trained therapist would probably squirm in their seat if some of us more messed up people chose to share the darkest parts of their past with them. It’s no wonder this madness goes on. Rarely do many of the more sane lunatics trust another person with such things while those who have almost lost their shit can’t seem to keep from spilling the beans to just about anyone who may seem interested in listening. That, combined with the fact that all of us eventually need to find a way to release this pain before it kills us it’s become way to hard for most people to talk about their pain and fears even though they need to in order to heal and overcome. The world has becomes quite a paradox. We can’t really get over our past unless we share it, and most people don’t even want to hear about it! Not even those we pay to do so… Talk about damned if you do, damned if you don’t. What a bitch huh!
Here, we just want to build people up while giving them access to different perspectives and people who can help them grow. You don’t have to agree with anything I, or anyone says, you just need to learn that no matter how you slice it we have over 7 billion people on this planet. And, with theses 7 billion people we in fact that many unique individual perspective. Some hold ideas and thoughts that are similar to our own, others are polar opposites, but all are necessary. Just because you don’t like some one else perspective doesn’t give you the right to attack them. After all we really are all fighting our own battles in life! We all have bruises and none of us need other peoples to make us feel even worse by having them try to hurt us because their perspective contradicts their own.
Don’t Be That Guy/Gal…! The world needs more compassionate people that are less self-righteous. The world already has enough asshole’s! Planet Earth has reached it’s quota. As anyone one the planet can probably attest to the fact that we have an more than an over abundance of assholes already, so please do add to the mix.
YOU ARE BETTER THAN THAT!
If you want to help me edit my posts and get a chance to see them before I post them, Please Click Here!